Mom is becoming more difficult with her mental health and memory iss,ues, praying he starts looking into putting her into a nursing home,and hes waiting..it seems like hes biding his time, denial fear of this, excuses, praying
Heavenly Father, I lift up this concern to You with a humble heart. Please look upon this family with compassion as they navigate the challenges of a loved one’s declining mental health and memory. Give strength, clarity, and courage to the one making decisions, removing fear, denial, and hesitation. Guide him to recognize the right time and the right place for the care she truly needs. Surround them with Your peace, wisdom, and comfort. I also lift up the prayer of PurpleKat, asking that You hear the cry of their heart and answer according to Your perfect will. Amen.
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Thanks,he seems to drag his feet a lot fears doing anytging hard
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Lord Jesus, we humbly ask for favor in this given situation. We know that it’s hard to place someone we love in assisted living but sometimes it’s what needs to be done. Bless this person and give her all the loving mercy you have to offer. Please still her mind and help her try to understand how hard this must be for her dad.
Dad still is being hard headed, wants to wait, and being in the hpuse with is like walking in eggshells, i know assisted living hes paranoid aboid assets her reaction but waitiong will..things wiil be a bigger problem, praying he calls the neurologist
He hasnt called the neurilogist, or dime preliminary to search for nursing homes or assisten lusing shes increaingly delusionak, paranoid iver simole everything things, my dad and i have everyday stuff under cintrol, praying dad will realise ya have to say no more tho hes enabling her less, ,he says ge cant force her to go to dr appts, i just saud say the docs really want to see her..if he wauts it out ot will be lore diffucult to di certsin testing and she will get more difficult
Sometimes it seems hes listening getting it regarding, moms her mental health isdues ,how they affect the family, me, her memory issues, that she needs more teats, a nursing home,he thinks by doingnothing ,taking it day by day,even tho her behavior is frustrating to no end..it will go away no it wont,
Sometimes he gets it but wont follow thru, cause he doesntbwant to take all the steps needed, they are not eady, there is money but he splurges on stuff at times, when respite and nursing home is needed,hed rather take the easy way out
Mom waa on the hos pital, he admits asdisted living is whats needed but wont do it yet, shes getting more difficult, he may do eezpite care, praying he will do assist living