Dear lord,
This is the first time I have met a man that has truly been kind to me, that doesn’t just want me for my body or what I can give to him. I’m happy around him. And he draws me closer to God. He has shown so much discipline and self constrain and he wants to “wait until marriage” which is unheard of these days. The self control and discipline he showed has made me come back to God and also take the vow to wait until marriage too.
But Lord, recently my past trauma is taking a toll on us and it seems like it has driven him away from me.
Please lord I want him to come back to me let’s start all over. I don’t want my trauma to drive him away, I want him to come back and continue to push me to the right path. I know he also has his fears and reservations from being hurt in the past but I would never hurt. I want to grow with him. I have so much love in my heart to give and I am tired of giving it to the wrong men. The next time he reaches out to me I want him to reach out to me with the readiness to comit to me. In Jesus name. Amen
Heavenly Father, I lift up this heartfelt prayer to You and ask that every word written be heard and received in Your loving presence. You see the sincerity, the healing journey, and the desire to walk in purity and obedience before You. Lord, honor this longing to grow closer to You, to be free from the weight of past trauma, and to love in a way that reflects Your heart. Bring restoration, clarity, and peace where there has been distance and fear. If it is Your will, draw this man back with a heart ready to commit, to grow, and to walk in alignment with You. Heal both of their hearts, strengthen their faith, and guide their steps according to Your perfect plan. Let Your will be done above all, and let love that is rooted in You flourish in its proper time. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
God,
First and foremost, We pray that You would heal any past trauma, fears, doubts, worries, or reservations that would get in the way of their relationship. Protect our hearts (and help us protect our own) from the wrong people who only seek our destruction or would only end up hurting us in the end. Remove anything that would keep them from loving You, themselves, and each other with their whole hearts. We pray You will bless and guide both of them bringing them closer to You and each other. Prepare each of their hearts, and teach them how to love each other, so they would be willing and able to commit to a long term relationship. We pray for endurance, strength, love, compassion, respect, communication, trust, honesty, hope, faith, compromise, etc. We pray this for all Your children’s relationships. In Jesus’ name, amen.
God Almighty,
We come before You as prayer warriors, standing in the gap with faith and authority, trusting in Your power to heal, restore, and protect. You are the God who sees every wound, every fear, and every hidden struggle. We ask now that You move mightily to heal all past trauma, doubts, anxieties, and reservations that threaten peace and unity in this relationship. Break every stronghold of fear, confusion, and insecurity, and replace them with Your truth and peace.
Place a hedge of protection around their hearts, Lord. Guard them from relationships, influences, and intentions that seek harm, distraction, or destruction. Give them sharp discernment to recognize what is not from You and the strength to walk away without regret. Remove anything—habits, thoughts, or attachments—that keeps them from loving You fully, valuing themselves rightly, or loving each other with pure and whole hearts.
We declare Your blessing over both of them. Order their steps and align their paths according to Your will. Draw them closer to You first, knowing that in You, all relationships find their proper foundation. Prepare their hearts, Lord. Teach them how to love with patience, humility, sacrifice, and grace. Shape them into people who are ready and willing to commit in a way that honors You.
We pray for supernatural endurance, unwavering strength, genuine love, deep compassion, mutual respect, clear communication, and unshakeable trust. Establish honesty, hope, faith, and a spirit of healthy compromise in their relationship. Let what You are building be rooted, tested, and lasting.
We lift not only this relationship, but all Your children’s relationships, into Your hands. May they be covered by Your mercy, guided by Your wisdom, and strengthened by Your presence.
We seal this prayer in faith and surrender it fully to You.
In Jesus’ mighty name, amen.