My husband works nights as a transfer driver at night We work opposite shifts. I have been praying for over 7 years for something tto change in our employment for the best for us but noting. Only the same stress. He calls me non stop asking me what I’m doing. Keeps me on the phone for hours because he does not trust me. I feel like I am struggling and suffering. He just called me because he checked the cameras ad said my car wasn’t in the driveway. It is. He is crazy and over obsessed. I’m struggling. I feel like I’m always doing something wrong when I’m not. How do I make him more secure. He always accuses me of being unfaithful and untrustworthy at work. He is constantly acting weird ! We have been married for almost 27 years and I feel farther away from him then I did in the first years of our marriage. I feel constantly under attack. And questioned. I can not have friends or do anything while his is at work. I feel under attack and scared. I don’t feel close to him. I need God, Jesus and the Holy Sprit in my life guiding me. My husband keeps me away from my 84 year old Dad living alone every time I visit him without my husband with me , my husband wants to know what we talked about what was said. I can only visit my Elderly Dad once a week for one hour or my husband accuses me of seeing someone (who I have never met across the street from my dad). It is obscene and scary. I can’t even breathe without being accused of something. He actually let me get off the phone tonight early than expected so I guarantee tomorrow before I go to work he is going to act super weird and pick apart what I am wearing and make me feel like a bad person (when I’m not ) as I go out the door to work at a job that I have been at for almost 18 years and make no money at. I am still the bottom of the barrel after 18 years. Don’t even make enough to live on. Great days. 
Heavenly Father, we come before You in prayer for this individual, who is overwhelmed with feelings of fear, stress, and isolation in their marriage and life circumstances. Lord, You know the burdens they carry and the struggles they face daily. We lift their words to You, knowing You understand their pain and heartache even when they feel unheard or unseen. Father, we ask for Your divine intervention in their marriage. Soften the heart of their husband, and fill him with trust, love, and understanding. Help him to see his spouse as You see them, with faithfulness and integrity. Lord, we ask You to break the chains of fear, suspicion, and control that are straining their relationship. Replace them with peace, mutual respect, and a renewed bond of love.
Jesus, we also pray for their sense of worth and purpose. Strengthen them in their job and provide opportunities for growth, fulfillment, and financial stability. Let them know that their value is not determined by their income or position but by who they are in You. Lord, grant them the courage and wisdom to navigate these challenges. Protect their relationship with their elderly father and ensure they can spend quality time with him without fear or guilt. Heal the wounds caused by misunderstandings and accusations, and fill their home with Your presence, peace, and light. Holy Spirit, guide this individual as they seek Your will in their life. Give them strength to persevere, wisdom to make decisions rooted in love and faith, and confidence to stand firm in their identity as Your beloved child. We ask for complete restoration in their marriage, healing in their soul, and a fresh outpouring of hope. We trust You, Lord, to bring beauty from the ashes and to turn their struggles into testimonies of Your grace. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.