My son's heart is breaking/ Husband suffering but Mean

All prayers welcome. I pray Lord, for you to ease the great pain caused to my now adult son, whose circumstances have made it necessary for him to come live with us for almost a year. My husband’s “vibes”, behaviour and sometimes Cruel words make it very plain to my son that he doesn’t want him here. Husband has had health issues for over 4 years, but seems to think it’s fine to let his miserableness spill out into the home, and to not even apologize for saying such things as “Just get out of my life!” … “Why don’t you just Leave!” I am sorry Lord, that I lack the courage (or something) to be open with my husband about this heartless, unacceptable behaviour(or to minimize what he’s said/done, and I’m sorry that when my son opens up about his intense suffering, I feel a Lot of anger towards my husband.
Please soften my husband’s heart. He thinks he is a spiritual person but does not look at his really mean, sometimes cruel behaviour. Please let him just “see” himself - how he is treating another human being - a Family member! His own stepson!!
I pray for my husband to really look at himself and change to how the Heavenly Father would like him to behave!!! And for my son to heal from the Post Traumatic Stress Disorder that’s resulted from the lack of love and the resentment that is So Clearly observable! :frowning:
I am hoping that members of this group will join in praying for this. Thank you.
Amen.