Recovery from fight

Marriage & Relationships
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Hello friends.

Please pray for me and my boyfriend. Things came to a head this past weekend and we had a fight over text and he shut down and didn’t talk to me (send any texts) for over 24hrs. It is a long story and I don’t want to include too many personal details here, but we have been together for a year.

My boyfriend has been fighting Stage 4 cancer.

I personally have many stressors at home.

I have been overly needy and anxious at times and I think I burned my boyfriend out. We both have our own problems but this time around he just shut down.

I want us to come back together and resolve the problems we face, but I’m not sure when I’ll see him again.

He has told me he loves me and wants to work through our situation, but we have not been as communicative as we used to be. It has been very hard mentally and emotionally, but I keep trying to surrender it all to God.

The uncertainty and waiting for him to talk to me more has been weighing heavily on my spirit. I’m not sure what to expect sometimes, but I want peace.

Please pray that God works in his heart and helps him reach out. :folded_hands: Thank you very much!

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Heavenly Father, I lift up Ivorysol and her boyfriend before You. You know every detail of their hearts and every struggle they are facing. Lord, he is fighting serious illness and she is carrying many burdens at home, and both of them are tired, hurting, and unsure of what to do next. I pray that You bring comfort, healing, and strength into their relationship. Please touch his heart, soften the heaviness he feels, and help him reach out with love and clarity. Give her peace in the waiting, calm her anxious thoughts, and surround her with Your presence. Restore their communication, renew their connection, and guide them toward understanding and reconciliation. May Your grace hold them together and may Your love carry them through this season. Amen.

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Thank you, Rose. We made it through that particular weekend and had a good talk about communication but he felt horrible yesterday and I made the mistake of saying too much and I just bothered him and now he is not talking to me again.

:heart: I tell myself to give it to God, give him to God, and let go. I was never in control to begin with.

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