Met at work, at a job i was at for over 7 years, S, was pretty neat, crwative, fun, like a mom, sadly she tried impressing bullies ugh, and sometimes she was ok other times no, other coworkers fine, then she manipulated and gaslighed more, she got eorse blamed me for tjings i didnt do much like the bullies and the awful company owner, came to a point got indications even most of her family wadny getting along with het, hoped to find the old s and took a long time to see it wasnt anything i did, strughled witn what dud i do cause it it didnt seem like i did anything, othets had trouble too with her, her health was and is declining, relieved and sad, fpund from various places n people that they could tell her actions and words were less than truthful..thanful, no resolution but feel a bit better, not really sure id ever want trust or be aroind her again, get that impression many felt and feel that way
Things may not be well in her life, i dont like how she treats and treated people but shes dated and married guys who dont treat her well current spouse no exception, not sure of maritial status, some one said he is now li ing just miles from me, person said u need to know and be careful tbo ges never careful,
Hi Kat, I sure have also had people like this in my life and it can be very damaging to the victims. I pray dear Jesus, please protect kat and other from toxic people who seem to have lost their way. Please heal the hearts that have been hurt by this person. In Jesus name Amen. Kat, um you may not like this but I ask of you and I will do the same to lift this person up in prayer. Pray that she can see the errors of her ways, pray that she can find Jesus in her life and be blessed.And please forgive “S”, the good thing about forgiving is it doesn’t mean we still have to be around the person, as we should try not to subject ourselves to toxic people. Forgiveness also will help you let go of bad feelings left inside from the damage done to you. Remember the Bible says that we will be forgiven according to how much we forgive others. I know it’s not easy. I come from a childhood of abuse and as an adult had many toxic people around me and it took me a long time to even see it. Now that I am closer to God I still pray for these people and daily and God to help me with forgiveness. With all that said, let’s pray … Lord please keep kat shining in your loving light of protection. We know you have said Lord that when to or more are in agreement with prayer that you will be there. Lord we thank you for every blessing you have given us in life and we also ask for blessing for “S”, that S may come to know you and seek to be like you and do good in the world. Please bless us all Lord, in Jesus mighty name, Amen!!
Sad to say s claims to be a christian, and she even badmouthed her daughter and grandchild to me, whobreached out to me but stopped, out of fear, but told ne she believes God punished her with..now adult kids with isdues as in learning difficulties,and hard times, i said not so, she just looked shocked like God will get u if u mess up..no have never spoken to hrr since that awful day since things went bad as in awful, tried reaching out 2c but ut was scathing ..so never again, i do put her name im for intentions, tho i dont think id see her. Tho its sad her health isnt great, part of me us sad as we had goog times and if things happen to het but being around hrt..others i know that were hurt by her avoid her like the plaque or are just corjial even much of her family…trust is shatters, i too lived with abuse and still live with difgicult family but set boundaries they dont always reLize no means no, sometimes they get other times they just push it or laugh..with S it snuck up on me cause bullies were more impresdive to her than real people and even loved ones yes she insulted even her small grandchild and daughter to me..and her parents who were always kind..to me..my real friends say she doesnt understand why people put up boundaries with het and say no or kerp a didtance