Very difficult family

All my life several of my family has catered to my spoiled estranged brother who was violebt and abusive, some saw it ,i beggec for help, only came in college still healing, has its upa and downs tho its not new family members still break promises to me, and enable him, some time back tno i just found out, some things that came from my late grandma were given to some friend of my spoiled estranged brother, praying how to go about getting them returned,my family refuses fearing trouble, praying the gal is suspicious, and thinks about it, praying mom goes to nursing home or mental health facility as her behavior isnt good..some family just ignores her behavior, my family thinks its easier to ignore and lett her behavior slide..its really a problem

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Heavenly Father, we lift up PurpleKat and all the pain, confusion, and brokenness within their family. You see every wound, every betrayal, and every unspoken cry for help. Please bring Your healing power into these relationships, restore what was lost, and move hearts toward truth, justice, and peace.

We pray for wisdom about the belongings that were taken, for conviction in the hearts of those involved, and for a peaceful resolution. Lord, please touch the mother’s mind and heart, bring her the care and stability she needs, whether through a nursing home or proper support. Surround PurpleKat with Your strength and comfort, reminding them that You are close to the brokenhearted and faithful to those who trust You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

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Thanks, i have a feeling my relative didnt say that was my grandmas or stuff like that,..she lacks judgement ,this lady likes pretty things tjo, but i pray she at leadt thinks it over, my family , some anyway felt it was easier than sauing no to my brother as hes spoiled and said oh hes special..um really..its never ok to hurt others

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Lord I pray for Purple Kat and family that your will be done in their lives and that they all come to you Lord for healing. We know you are the Great Physician and you forgive all sins and heal all diseases Lord every problem belongs to you because you fight our battles. I pray that this family cast their burdens on you Lord so that you can sustain them. Let your love flow through this family and show them forgiveness, love, understanding and wisdom so they will know how to love each other. You want us to treat others the way we want to be treated so Lord, we ask that your will be done in this family. Lord you love family togetherness and unity and we pray against every distraction and snare of the enemy to distract this family from loving each other. We pray that every attempt of the enemy to distract Purple Kat and her family be abolished in Jesus name Amen

Praying that the items are returned and the lady willunderstand, and people will see past moms manipulation and denial

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Trust in the LORD and pray for your family.

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Been praying, its been hard it seem some see what i see but not completly, they are afriad, and my other relative doesnt want do anything at all

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In the name of Jesus Christ I come in agreement that the Lord give you peace, strength and faith. Lord the Bible tells us in Hebrews 11:6 that without faith it is impossible to please you, therefore we ask for faith for PurpleKat so that when the prayers go up for her family she will receive answer through revelation or however you will answer her Lord. We pray for discernment for Puplekat so that she is able to follow your lead Lord as you show her Your will for her life. Lord we pray for health and healing for this family and we pray for justice to be done were You see it needs to be done. We pray for family unity and we pray that you will heal and forgive all unforgiveness and bitterness that may have taken root in this family O Lord we know that You are able and that You can do it. We pray that Purplekat will trust you and keep the faith so the enemy does not creep in and try to shake her faith. Lord let every tactic of the enemy against this family be dismantled and destroyed. You are the Prince of Peace and we declare your peace to be still over this family in the namee of Jesus Christ Amen. Try your faith PurpleKat. Jesus loves you God bless

He thinks if it doesnt affrct him, let someone else deal with it, its beyound what me or anyone can deal with, he said donr put this on him, often threatens to leave me with her knowing how she is with me, she gives him a hard time too, its mire than time for a nursing home and or mental health faciliry, praying he sees the till its taking

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Welcome, its getting stressful with vscation coming up ext i feel like she is getting to a point where she has no boundaries, my relative is in denial, scared she dispose of all itemd that are nessesary,my relative lets her do as she wznts, praying whether the vacation should happen

I will keep praying with you keep the faith and be strong that’s what God wants us to do. I understand what you mean. If I can suggest something to you I would suggest this, try to shift the way you look at it. When a troublesome thought comes up take every thought captive to the obedience of Christ like in 2 Corinthians 10:5. Try learning that part by memory so anytime a thought will come up you take it captive to obey Christ. And the reason I suggested this is because it helped me many times. I understand that it is hard for you and I understand but if you continue to let it get to you you will only make yourself feel worse. You have to take care of yourself you can’t let it bring you down. There are some things that God allows us to go through to strengthen us and maybe this is a test for you. So through it just make sure you speak nicely to her as the Bible instructs us to honor our parents, try doing something fun with her and see if it helps. Maybe she needs help maybe you can set up an appointment for a therapist she can speak too, there maybe silent battles for her that you don’t know about. And it makes things better to work things out and find out why she does this to you. Don’t run from it, it should be addressed and worked out. And the more you do this while continuing to pray I trust with you that God will work it out for you. I have had to use that bible verse before everyday and still do anytime any type of thought comes that I know will try to create a stronghold. The more you declare this verse over your thoughts it will get a little easier. And taking care of yourself is important too because if you don’t take care of yourself it will make it difficult to care for others too. So much love in Christ to you I am praying that God reveal a way this can be worked out for your family. Jesus loves you and them too.

She has refused therapy as shes in denial and wont do anything fun with anyone but my estranged brother,im hoping my dad will do tgerapy, and get a diffetebt doctor, i do try to keep things from her, i prY each day that my stuff wont be ruined tossec ect

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PurpleKat good evening I pray all is well with you and your family. I want to share this Bible verse that was put on my heart to share with you that would help with thoughts and keeping yourself healthy and it is Philippians 4:6. And this helps also because sometimes when we go through tests, negative feelings and thoughts sometimes create strongholds and to make sure that doesn’t happen what I do when a negative thought comes to my mind is I ask myself, is this thought true, noble, pure,lovely, of good report, of virtue or praiseworthy because in that verse God tells us to meditate on these things. And this is a helpful verse because if the thought that comes to mind isn’t one of these virtues it should leave, sometimes you have to do it each time a neg. thought comes because of spiritual warfare. The enemy wants to own our thoughts but by the blood of Jesus he can’t have them. Have a goodnight and God bless you and your family.:heart:

Thanks for prayers, seems when i say to please respect property, pets, while im away i get anger and rudness as if im overlooked, but if its anyone elses oh keave it alobe or else

Mom needs nursing home, that new doctors are found, 1 was sort of cause her main doc was busy,praying the enabling stops